i keep dreaming of my ex boyfriend since we have broken up. it feels as though i can physically feel him in those dreams. i wake up feeling sad and lost with the realization that we really have broken up. i dream of living life together and i can feel when he kisses and hugs me. when he is in these dreams we are still together and its like hes comforting me through the break up in a way, i find myself sleeping way longer when i have these dreams. we were going on a road trip and we went and go frozen yogurt and went to a zoo, he had given me a card and told me he loved me for the first time
Dreams about an ex-boyfriend after a breakup can be quite common and reflect unresolved emotions or a longing for the past relationship. In your dream, it seems that you are still emotionally connected to your ex and experiencing a deep sense of loss. The physical sensations you feel in the dream, such as his kisses and hugs, suggest a desire for emotional intimacy and comfort that you miss from the relationship.
The dream also indicates that you are seeking closure and acceptance of the breakup. The scenario of going on a road trip and doing enjoyable activities symbolizes the journey of moving on and finding happiness without your ex. The frozen yogurt and zoo represent lightheartedness and joy, which may indicate your longing for those carefree moments you shared together.
The fact that he gives you a card and says "I love you" for the first time in the dream could signify your subconscious desire for reconciliation or a wish for closure with love and affection. However, it is essential to remember that dreams are not necessarily predictive or indicative of your ex's true feelings.
The extended duration of sleep following these dreams may be a reflection of your mind's attempt to hold onto the connection and the emotions associated with the past relationship. It's important to acknowledge these feelings and allow yourself to process the grief and move forward.
Consider engaging in self-care, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support from friends or a therapist to help navigate the emotions associated with the breakup and find healing. Over time, as you work through these feelings, the frequency and intensity of these dreams may lessen.